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Emotionally Nutritious Words for Children

The Nurtured Heart Approach™ was developed by Howard Glasser as a method to address the intensity of a challenging child’s uncontrolled anger, aggression, defiance and disrespect. Many parents, teachers and therapists find themselves struggling with a challenging child’s intensity and find good intentions, common parenting strategies, and teaching and counseling strategies not only frustrating, but failing. The Nurtured Heart Approach™ regards a child’s intensity as a gift that needs to be nurtured, which will consistently help one to use intensity as a productive force successfully. The child learns to believe and build confidence in the successes that flow from fully investing intensity, intelligence and life force into positive action, resulting in great “Inner Wealth.” The same child that acts out problems quickly becomes a child who is able to act out “Greatness” — what everyone wanted in their hearts all along!

Tell a Child That He or She is...

A joy
A good friend
A hard worker
A source of strength
A leader
A light
A lighthouse
A helper
A scientist
A great example
An advocate
Aware
Accomplishing a lot
Acting creatively
Acting spirited
Admirable
Appreciative
Attentive to detail
Being dazzling
Being inspiring
Being surprising
Being powerful
Being wise
Brave
Bringing out the best in others
Being inspiring
Beaming
Choosing what’s important
Compassionate
Considerate
Cooperative
Creative
Courageous
Constructive
Clear
Clear-minded
Committed
Courteous
Dedicated to success
Diligent
Discerning
Direct
Dignified
Deeply understanding
Demonstrating integrity
Exceeding expectations
Easy to like
Efficient
Empathetic
Expansive
Feeling the joy of discovery
Flashing a contagious smile
Finding new in the ordinary
Faithful
Focused
Forgiving
Generous
Going above and beyond
Gracious
GenuineGood-hearted
Glorious
Having unique ideas
Having great curiosity
Handling strong emotions well
Having an open mind
Honorable
Hopeful
Independent
Inspiring
Inquisitive
Intelligent
Possessing innate ability

 

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Kind
Loving
Looking out for others
Managing his/her time well
Making a happy mood
Marking a hard task look easy
Making great choices
Making an insightful inference
Making delightful deductions
Making a solid educated guess
Organized
Open-minded
Pulling together
Patient
Positive
Peaceable
Powerfully spirited
Productive
Passionate
Reasonable
Respectful
Respecting self
Refined
Responsible
Seeing the big picture
Self-controlled
Sunshine to others
Steadfast
Strong on the inside
Trustworthy
Thankful
Thrifty
Tactful
Thoughtful
Understanding
Using a pleasant voice
Using your great mind
Vibrant
Visionary

Or that he or she has…

A quick mind
Brilliant thoughts
A pleasant manner
A fine sense of humor
A sense of beauty
An appreciation of art
A great sense of logic
A great ability to be receptive

Or that he or she is showing, having or demonstrating…

Amazing forethought
Balanced thinking
Excellent planning skills
Good teamwork
Imagination
Knowledge of when to reflect
Magnificent thinking
Perseverance
Real talent
That she/he has been raised right
Zest

 

Other Ideas: “I am the greatness of..."

Being a warrior (the positive side of power)
Greatness (sure---why not?)
Fearless
Service
Discernment
Giving
Receiving
Helpfulness
Grace
Laughter
Inspiration
Encouragement
Support
Brilliance
Intelligence
Focus
Motivation
Illumination
Light
Patience
Enlightenment
Attunement
Strength
Determination
Generosity
Magnanimity
Courage
Wisdom
Charisma
Sensuality
Artistry
Sexuality
Intuition
Foresight
Responsiveness
Action
Power
Judgment
Thoughtfulness
Consideration
Differentiation
Consciousness
Forgiveness
Righteous Indignation
Activism
Conscientiousness
Meaningfulness
Perspective
Calmness
Rectitude
Fortitude
Perseverance
Lovingness
Principle
Playfulness
Plasticity
Purpose
Grace
Appreciation
Effort
Fascination
Enjoyment
Energy
Connection
Relationship/friendship
Intimacy
Cheerfulness
Longing for remembering God
Belonging
Community-mindedness
Mindfulness
Opportunism
Refusal/opposition
Daring
Being extraordinary
Activeness
Nimbleness
Protectiveness
Brazenness
Loveliness
Lovingness
Valor
Togetherness